12 different kinds of gays!

:) I got this funny post from a forum site which I am an 'active' member. Hope you like it!
but I don't know where the poster got this, or the main source of this.. but anyway, enjoy! =D

1. CLOSET GAY - the basic, mga baklang ayaw umamin ng kanilang kabaklaan. Sila ay madalas na pigil at laging pinag-iisipan ang kanilang kilos. Madalas pag nasa maraming tao, kilos lalaki sila pero pag dilim, dun lumalabas ang totoong kulay.
Bukambibig: "Huwag kang maingay, hindi alam ng tatay ko na bakla ako!"

2. SISTER L - baklang lantaran sa kanilang mga kabaklaan. Sila yung mga nagdadamit ng pambabae, nagme-make-up, at yung iba, nagpapa-sex change.
Bukambibig: "Punta tayo sa katabing bar, maraming mga lalaking gwapo dun!"

3. MACHO-CHOPA - baklang hindi mo aakalain dahil mas guwapo at macho pa sa tunay na lalaki. Ito yung mga baklang maskulado, nagdyi-gym madalas upang magpalaki ng katawan. Pero pag kumilos si macho-chopa e halata mo ring charing dahil mahilig magpa-cute sa mga guwapong trainor sa gym.
Bukambibig: "Hi, can I know your number?"

4. MALDITA - baklang nakakaimbiyerna, masyadong nagmamaganda kahit na mukhang pwet ng baso ang mukha. Madalas mataray, parang laging nireregla. Masyado ring insecure ang maldita sa mga magagandang babae.
Bukambibig: "Che! Lumayas ka sa harapan ko. Sinisira mo araw ko! Bruha ka!"

5. SPICE GAY - baklang elite, socialite, laging nasa mall, starbucks, at madalas gumimik sa Malate. Kadalasan maiingay ang mga spice gays. Madalas binubuo sila ng 3-5 sa isang grupo. Madalas itong naka-wheels at mga branded ang sinusuot na damit. Madalas rin silang may shades na suot-suot. Sa pananamit naman, mahahalata mo rin na bakla sila dahil mas kikay pa sila kaysa sa mga babae. Pero hindi sila nagdadamit ng obvious na pambabaeng damit. To add, medyo mayabang rin ang mga spice gays.
Bukambibig: "You know, I bought this bag from Italy. It’s Gucci and it is very expensive."

6. SANTA CLARA - baklang may magandang determinasyon. Siya yung relihiyoso. Madalas siyang nagiging katekista, minsan pumapasok sa seminaryo upang maging pari. Hindi gaanong lumalabas ng bahay dahil parating nagdarasal upang layuan siya ng tukso. Madalas siyang active sa charity works at novenas. Kaunti lamang ang mga Santa Clara pero sila ang mga baklang huwaran.
Bukambibig: "Diyos ko, tulungan mo po akong lumayo sa kahit anumang tukso. Amen."

7. BUD-WISER - hindi ito pangalan ng alak o beer, another type ito ng gays. Ito yung baklang hindi madaling maloko ng mga lalaki kahit guwapo pa siya. Masyadong masinop sa pera at pessimistic with regards to men. Kadalasan siya yung nagtatagumpay sa buhay. Minsan mas pipiliin pa niyang mag-asawa ng girl kahit na diring-diri siya kaysa kuwartahan ng lalaki. Kaya siya nag-aasawa ng girl dahil para hindi siya makuwartahan nito.
Bukambibig: "Manloloko silang lahat!"

8. SANTA CLAUS-A - opposite ng BUD-WISER, ito yung baklang bigay-kaya - sa lalaki niya o sa mga kaibigan, kapamilya o kamag-anak niya. Madalas walang pera ang mga Santa Clausa. Sila ang mga baklang madaling maloko. Magastos rin ang mga ganitong type ng gays.
Bukambibig: "Anong gusto mo? Ibibigay ko ang lahat kahit wala na akong pera."

9. DETECTIVE CHUVA - baklitang daig pa ang isang detective kung subaybayan niya ang kanyang "special someone". Ika nga, stalker. Lahat ng tungkol sa kanyang crush e alam niya. Ni ultimo kung kailang ang birthday, kung ano ang favorite food, favorite movie, favorite hung-out, favorite blah-blah. Madalas siyang panakaw kung tumingin. Pasulyap-sulyap lang kuno pero pinagnanasaan na pala niya.
Bukambibig: "Mapapasaakin ka rin balang araw…"

10. HANDSOMMA (Pronounciation: hand-sa-ma) - gay na biniyayaan ng mukha. Heto yung mga tipong habulin ng babae. Minsan ang mga Handsomma ay closet gay, pilit na itinatago ang tunay na pagkatao. Sa panlabas, chickboy si Handsomma pero deep inside, lalaki ang gusto. Sayang ang kaguwapuhan ng mga ito at tiyak na ang laking panghihinayang ng mga babae.
Bukambibig: "Yuck, hindi tayo talo noh!"

11. ECLATUGZ - gay na mahilig tumagay. In short lassenggera este lassengero. Mahilig mag-aya ng inuman si Eclatugz lalo na kung ang aayain niya eh yung crush niya. Kunwari aayain ng Eclatugz ang kanyang crush sa isang inuman. Tapos pag nalasing na ang kawawang guy, patay siya! Tiyak pagpipistahan na siya ni Eclatugz.
Bukambibig: "Pare, inuman tayo! Minsan lang toh noh!"

12. MANIAC - uri ng gay na may maling determinasyon. Ito yung mga maniacs o mapang-nasa sa kapwa lalagi. Siya yung tipo ng gay na gagawin ang lahat para lamang masatisfy sa kanyang carnal hunger. Madalas ay pedophile or maaaring hustler ang maniac.
Bukambibig: "Sa akin ka lang! Sa akin ka lang kung ayaw mong mamatay!"

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source: http://www.tristancafe.com/forum/171776

♥ Mara Sheana MANiPON

LOvEstEr CuTiES ♥ POLL CAMPAiGNS.

Another FLAAAAMIIINGG update for our BLOG!
Presenting.. *drumroll please*

LOvEstEr CuTiES 2009
Male and Female Category

prOmOtiOn pO sa POLL →
Scroll-down a bit, and on this side you'll see it. →

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(MARA's CHOiCE)
(MARA's CAmPAiGn. Haha!)

(Please Vote naman po sa kanila. :P Sayang naman effort ko dito sa post.)
Hehehe.. *cheer*

Oi oi.. Fasten your seatbelts. Get ready. Mabubusog ang mga mata niyo.


→MALE CATEGORY←


♥ ENCHONG DEE




Ernest ("Enchong") Lorenzo Dee (born November 5, 1988) is a Filipino actor, model, and champion swimmer. He's also one of Cosmopolitan Magazine's 2006 Centerfold Bachelors. Enchong (uy ano to, typo error ba sa site? -Mara), also known as Enchong, is part of the Philippine national swim team and has participated in the SEA Games. He just competed at the 2006 Asian Games and is currently training for the 2008 Beijing Olympics. He is also studying Sports Management at De La Salle University.

Called “Halimaw” by his teammates because of his powerful kick and speed, Enchong's specialty is the butterfly stroke. Dee’s fastest time in the 100-meter butterfly is 56.5, which puts him at par with the world’s top 10.

18 year-old Enchong Dee, the younger brother of AJ Dee, has also appeared in the Bench Fever fashion show as well as various TV shows like Pilipinas Game K N B, Homeboy, Sharon and Let's Go. He is also one of the cast of ABS CBN's teen series Abt Ur Luv. Since then, he's now fast becoming a heartthrob as he enters showbiz.


Why do I ♥ him:
His aura is undescribably striking.
Total crushness factor... to the max!
Actor, model... and a great swimmer!
The fact that he is recognized in the world means so much.

*sigh*
A lot of girls surrounds you.
but still,
I hope someday our paths will cross.


♥ CHRIS TIU



Christopher John Alandy-Dy Tiu (born July 15, 1985), better known as Chris Tiu, is a Chinese-Filipino basketball player of the Ateneo Blue Eagles, TV host, commercial model, and multi-talented student. He is the co-host of the TV show Pinoy Records every Saturday, along with Manny Pacquiao. He also hosts Ripley's Believe It or Not! on GMA 7 every Monday night after GMA Telebabad. Tiu took his high school education at Xavier School in San Juan City, Philippines, and his collegiate education at the Ateneo de Manila University in Quezon City, Philippines, where he finished his two major courses, Bachelor of Science in Management Engineering and Bachelor of Science/Master of Applied Mathematics, Major in Mathematical Finance, Minor in Chinese Studies. As a second eldest of five siblings, he is formerly the Sangguniang Kabataan Chairman and now, a barangay kagawad (barangay councilor) of Barangay Urdaneta in Makati City. Kapuso Mo, Jessica Soho featured Tiu on October 4, 2008.

He was named Favorite Athlete in first-ever Nickelodeon Philippines Kids' Choice Awards 2008 held at Aliw Theater, Pasay City.

Why do I ♥ him:
Looks + Charisma + + well-bred + Sporty + Brainy = Chris Tiu
An Ideal man! Package deal! =D
And of course, he is studying in my dream school. Haha!

Ohmaygesh. I wish I have a big Bro like him.
or should I say, I hope he's my big bro. :)


♥ CARLO GUEVARA



One of the most promising new faces of the showbiz industry.
BE Bench’s male winner Carlo Guevara. (out of 1362 aspirants)

Full Name - Carlo Adrian L. Guevarra
Nickname - Carlo
Birthday - Sept. 2, 1988 (Virgo)
Birthplace - Manila
Parents - Emmanuel Guevarra and Rosario Lazcanotigue
Height - 5'9"
Weight - 150 lbs.
School - Philippine Christian University, fourth year high school (will take up Computer Application in College)
Religion - Roman Catholic
Favorite Song/Singer - Beautiful Girl; Piolo Pascual
Favorite Actor/Actress/Movie - Piolo Pascual/Kristine Hermosa/Superman
Hobbies - Playing basketball, watching movies
Motto - Try and try until you succeed.

Trivia: Two years ago, he weights 220lbs.

Why do I ♥ him:
Innocent-faced model/hunk.
I also admire his persistence.
See, he is flabby then, but now, he's a hunky!

I also love his role in Desperadas 2 Hahaha!
He's so cute in there.
Actually, it's where I've really noticed him!

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Ok..Ok.. it's mY tuRn. =P

(RUBEN's CHOiCE)

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♥ RON MORALES




A Filipino model, actor and performer.
23-year-old Haroun “Ron” Morales is a runner-up in the reality model search “Be Bench.” The 6 footer hunk now works as a model and actor on ABS-CBN. He is chosen by Cosmopolitan Philippines as one of its 10 Centerfold Hunks for 2008.

why do i ♥ him?
he's totally gorgeous!
he's hot sexy body?! that's the reason why he's first in my list.
he's hunk.

(oh how i wish i could see you in personal...)

♥ ROBI DOMINGO




Robert Marion Eusebio Domingo, commonly known as True Blue Atenean Robi Domingo is a product, and first runner up of the popular reality television show Pinoy Big Brother Teen Edition Plus of ABS-CBN 2. He is now an actor/VJ and a full-time college student of Ateneo de Manila University in the Philippines.

why do i ♥ him?
the first time i saw him(when he entered pbb), my initial reactin was: OMIGOSH! that guy is so cute. i was realy star-strucked by his cute baby face.
he is also good actor and a vj.
his gf is so lucky to have him.
"if meron. hahahaha" if lang!

♥ GERALD ANDERSON



Gerald Randolph Opsima Anderson Jr. (born March 7, 1989 in Subic Bay, Zambales, Philippines) is a Filipino - American actor who was then a former housemate on the reality television first season of Pinoy Big Brother: Teen Edition, and rose to fame through the Filipino teleserye Sana Maulit Muli, My Girl and Tayong Dalawa.

why do i ♥ him?
no wonder everyone knows him.
when he entered the reality show pbb, he's totally stand-out among the rest. he's the cutest.
and now he's one of the most promising actor of his generation.
... and also a product endorser.
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Now you're MESMERIZED! =D

Let's move-on to the female category!

→FEMALE CATEGORY←

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Back tO me! =P

(MARA's CHOiCE)

♥ REGINE ANGELES



BE Bench Model Winner!

Regine Angeles is the cover story of Maxim Philippines October 2008 issue. Regine Angeles is the female winner in the Be Bench Model Search. Regine Angeles gained more prominence after a meaty role in the Kimerald primetime soap, “My Girl.” Regine Angeles is again in the cast of ABS-CBN’s Your Song Presents: “My Only Hope”

Why do I ♥ her:
Sophisticated looks.
Sexxei appeal and gorgeous girlie.
A total head-turner! =D

I won't wonder why guys are drooling over her.

She's my crush! (Wuu Walang malisya ah.)

I first noticed her in "My Girl"
Her Charm really captivated me.

I just wish she's my big sisturr dear. :)

She's also not the pa-cute type like ____________ (secret. censored. Haha!)


♥ DENISE LAUREL



Denise Maria Sanz Laurel (born September 30, 1987) is a Filipina actor and singer. Laurel is a member of ABS CBN's circle of homegrown talents named Star Magic.

She made a name in Singapore when she was fortunate to be part of MTV Asia’s "Rouge" which was shown all over Asia. Among the many who auditioned, she stood out and got the role of a smart lead vocalist named Pat. At the age of 16, her experience in working with other nationalities has taught her things that helped her improve her craft. After a season in "Rouge," Denise decided to concentrate on her local showbiz career.

-She is the granddaughter of former Vice President, the late Salvador Laurel, and the great-granddaughter of former Philippine President, the late Jose P. Laurel.-She is the youngest daughter of David Laurel.
-She grew up in the atmosphere of famous theatrical personalities, so it was inevitable that she carved out a career in theater as well. Denise was about five years old when she landed her first stage role in the musical South Pacific.
-She finished elementary school in St. Paul's College in Pasig
-Her best-friend is fellow actress Maja Salvador.

Why do I ♥ her:
Sweet-looking girlie, and so so pretty.
She looks so adorable. =D
A natural actress too.

I bet she's a great bestiie.


♥ ERICH GONZALES

*note: as you notice, the name on the poll is 'Karel Marquez'. I changed my mind while I'm making this Post (yeah, it's too late) so I can't change it anymore to 'Erich Gonzales'. The only choice I would have if I would edit it is to delete the POLL and make another again, but since a lot already voted, It would be unfair for them and for John Ruben.
Basta the 'Karel Marquez' on the POLL would be 'Erich Gonzales' na lang po ha.



Erika Chryselle Gonzales Gancayco also known as Erich Gonzales (born 20 September 1990) is a Filipina teen actress and a member of ABS-CBN's Star Magic. Her career began when she won as Grand Questor in the reality talent search Star Circle National Teen Quest in 2005. She is best known for playing the role of Waling-Waling in the teen-oriented show Abt Ur Luv.

Erich was raised in Davao City and has two siblings. After winning Star Circle Quest, she changed her family name from Gancayco to Gonzales which is the maiden family name of her mother.

Along with her acting commitments, Erich is currently attending her college years in the Trinity University of Asia in Quezon City.

Why do I ♥ her:
Pretty-faced, innocent-looking chick.
I find her attractive and fun!
She's pretty and definitely charming.
So cute =D She also acts well.

I admire her also because she continues
her studies despite of her busy career.

Nice and sweet-looking gurl.
i could just imagine if she's my sis.
Awww.

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hOy gurL. akO naMan!

(RUBEN's CHOiCES)

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♥ MAJA SALVADOR




Maja Ross Andres Salvador (born October 5, 1988) is a Filipina actress and commercial model. She is currently under contract with ABS-CBN. She is the daughter of character actor Ross Rival, the niece of dramatic actor and action star Phillip Salvador and the granddaughter of Lou Salvador.

Why do I ♥ her:
she's a versatile actress.
she can do any role.
she can also sing(it is part of her role in pangarap na bituin as ruby), and she totally freakin' good in dancing.
her acting is so amazing.
actualy i rely like her maala-ala mo kaya episodes so much.
and she's very beautiful.


♥ IYA VILLANA





Raelene Elaine Ebaler Villanía (born 29 June 1986 in Australia), better known with her screen name as Iya Villania, is a Filipina-Australian actress, host, singer and model. Mostly credited for being one of Philippines television's most visible and prominent personalities, she shares hosting roles for notable TV shows like ASAP Mania, Us Girls and as a VJ for MYX music channel.

why do i ♥ her:
she my pinay crush...
(yes! promise!)
i like her face, it's so gorgeous.
i like the way she talks, her diction...
i also like the way she dress herself-up.
she's not maarte.

and she's also a good dancer!

(and also in singing and acting)


♥ ANNE CURTIS





Anne Ojales Curtis Smith popularly known as Anne Curtis (born on 17 February 1985 in Australia) is a Filipino-Australian television and film actress. Recently, she won Best Actress and Commercial Endorser in 27th People's Choice Dangal ng Bayan Awards

why do i ♥ her:
she's one of the hottest and sexiest girl in town.
...and also a good actress.

i admire her because she is so fashionable.
i like the way she dress.
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♥ Mara Sheana MANiPON


Mara Sheana Manipon (19 November 1993) is a student...

HAHAHA! LOL. Just Kidding! I'm not included! T_T

Basta don't forget to vote on my campaigns!

(MARA's bet!)

Male category
-Enchong Dee
-Chris Tiu
-Carlo Guevara

Female category
-Regine Angeles
-Denise Laurel
-Erich Gonzales (as i said, nagkamali po sa pagkaka-type sa poll, dapat Erich Gonzales yun, hindi 'Karel Marquez', i-check niu na lang po pa rin yung Karel kahit si Erich ang vote niu po.)

AGAIN, PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO VOTE THEM ON OUR POLL! →
What are you waiting for?! =D VOTE NOW!

(I'll just wait for the boombastic post of John Ruben match against this. Haha!)
(He prepared something too.)
=P

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*EHEM! EHEM!
Here's the last choice for the cutest guy. (please disregard the one on top of me... i dont know why her pic was included...)

♥John Ruben Esperanza

(haha, just kidding...)
(baka manalo pa kasi ako pag na-include eh...)
=p

Uy basta ha, don't forget po to VOTE on our pOLL. →

(RUBEN's bet!)

Male category:
>Ron Morales
>Robi Domingo
>Gerald Anderson

Female category:
>Maja Salvador
>Iya Villania
>Anne Curtis

Go go go!

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CiaO guys! I hope you'll support our 'racket'. Haha!
And also our POSTS! (lahat eh pinaghirapan, pinagpawisan at pinag-effortan! Garantisado!)

♥ Mara Sheana MANiPON
♥ John Ruben ESPeRANZA


*Gratitudes:

http://enchongdee.blogspot.com/2007/01/ernest-enchong-lorenzo-dee-born.html -Enchong
http://profiles.friendster.com/71782006 -Chris Tiu
http://forums.abs-cbn.com/thread/2487185.aspx -Carlo Guevara
http://getitfromboy.net/regine-angeles-in-maxim-philippines/ -Regine Angeles
http://www.bebotbebot.com/gallery/thumbnails.php?album=80 -Regine Angeles
www.wikipedia.com -i got most of the details here
www.friendster.com -some images are from here

(NoT yOur OrDiNARy) Tragic L♥ve Stories

Hey there! ♥ Mara here!

I've found again a good, touching, one-sitting story.
But mind you, this story will make you change your perceptions in life and love.
^____^ and guys too.

Just another love story? Think again. I advice that you read this first before you would judge it.

You may have already read this but please don't spoil the others, nor yourself.
(Sayang naman effort ko 'noh. Hehe..)

So here it is...


TRAGIC LOVE STORY

They'd known each other since school days and had
since become the best of friends. They shared everything and
anything and spent lots of time together in and after school.

But, the friendship never developed into anything deeper.
Diane kept a secret, her admiration and love for
Jack. She has her reasons for keeping it a secret. FEAR. Fear
of rejection. Fear that he might not feel the same... fear that he
might not want to be her best friend anymore... fear of losing
someone that she could always find comfort in. At least if she kept
her feelings to herself she would still be able to spend time with
him... and hopefully, he would be the one to tell her how he
felt towards her.

Time passed and soon...school was over. Jack and
Diane went separate ways. Jack continued his studies
overseas while Diane got herself a job. They still kept in touch
though...penned letters, sent each other photographs and mailed each
other gifts. Diane longed for Jack to be back.



She decided that she would tell him her feelings
once he got back. And then...out of the blue...the mails from
Jack stopped coming. Diane wrote to him, but there was never a
reply. Where was he? What happened? Lots of questions ran through her
mind...



Two years passed and Diane was still hopeful that
Jack would come back...or at least send her a note. And then
her prayers were answered.

One mid-August day, she received a note from
Jack...it said:

"Diane, I have a surprise for you. I'm flying over.
Meet me at the airport. My flight comes in at 4 p.m. on Saturday. I
can't wait to see you again Diane! There's something I need to
tell you, something I've been keeping all this time... Love n Kisses
Jack"

Diane's fingers shook as she read the note. Her
heart soared.

Diane was thrilled. Love and kisses...it meant a lot
for a lady who had waited so long for those words. She was
ecstatic.



The day arrived, Diane waited anxiously for Jack.
She had slipped into her best dress and did her best to look as
pretty as she could. She looked around but Jack was nowhere in
sight. She waited and waited, wondering what she would say to Jack
when he got there, what their meeting would be like. Would there
be love in his eyes? Would there be longing bred from years of
separation and hiding each others' feelings? Oh how she longed to
see him!



How she longed to throw her arms around him and tell
him she was a fool to ever let him go without ever telling
him how she felt. She was certain Jack felt it too.
There was always a certain magic about them when
they were together. Then...a lady in a sexy tight blue dress
approached her.

She had a very concerned look on her face, "Hi! I'm
Lyn, a friend of Jack. Are u Diane?" she asked. Diane just nodded
her head.

"I'm afraid I ... I have bad news for you...Jack is
not coming...he won't be coming back anymore," said the lady,
placing a hand on Diane's shoulder.

Diane shook her head in confusion. She felt her
heart constrict.

What could possibly have happened?? Diane felt an
overwhelming fear inside her. Her hands turned cold. Her voice
shook as she asked: "Where ---- where's Jack? What happened to
him???

Please tell me..."

Diane begged the lady...

The lady looked intently at Diane, and then
she gave Diane a nudge on the shoulder and
said,

"Hoy gaga...its me...Jack... Jaquilyn!!!

Don't you recognize me, honey??

...Am I pretty now?"



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Oh shOot! ViCTiM!

♥ Hahaha!

jOke Time!

But honestly, i feel pity for the girl.

ChillaX guys.

LiVe LOvE LaUgH. ♥

This Blog doesn't have to be that Choosy. :)

(A tribute to the Same Sex Post somewhere down ↓)


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heyah! RUBEN here♥

i just want to share this story...
this is very touching...

Seryoso na toh ah! nOt a practical jOke like ↑ hmp!

i h♥pe you like it. =)


TRAGIC LOVE STORY


IT'S 7TH GRADE..

I stared at the girl next to me... She was my so called "best friend"... I stared at her... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said "thanks"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...

IT'S JUNIOR YEAR..

My phone rang... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... I Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...

IT'S SENIOR YEAR..

The day before prom... She walked to my locker... "My date is sick" she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates... We'd go together just as "best friends"... And so we did...

IT'S PROM NIGHT..

After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said "I had the best time... Thanks!"... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...

IT'S GRADUATION DAY..

A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said "you're my best friend"... "Thanks!"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...

IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER..

Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say "I do" an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said "You came!... Thanks!"... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...

YEARS PASSED..

I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend"... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... "I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me"... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...
rest in peace my Love.

-end-

what I’m trying to say is:
untold love is so painful.
Tomorrow is unsure, so express your feelings today before it was too late.

in the story, they both are afraid to tell what they feel for each other. they don't want to say it.
how can you find your true love if you always hide what your heart feels.
because you are afraid that she/he will not accept you?
because you are afraid “na yung pakikitungo niya noon sayo ay magbago"?

If you want something you have never had, you must be willing to do something you have never done.

Love is a game and everyone plays that game!!

"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give -- which is everything."

~~~

♥ Mara Sheana MANiPON
♥ John Ruben ESPeRANZA



*Gratitude:

Mara's:
www.tristancafe.com/forum/169580 -the post where I've found this, also copy-pasted.
www.photobucket.com -for the images
*I don't really know where to found the original source of this.
*I slightly edited it, just super eeny-weeny slight. →the spacing. LOL.

J.R.'s:
photobucket-for the pictures
quizilla.com- for the story
www.photobucket.com -for the photos

Game of L♥ve

Now we’re talkin’ about Love.

Let’s face it. Love is one of the most widely discussed among teenagers like us. Well, why not, chokonut? This is definitely interesting. We could all relate into this.

No one wouldn’t possibly feel it, whether love of the family, love for the nation…but most especially, the ‘romantic love’ factor. The ‘kilig moments’ ‘HHWW’ are such a nice experience. Especially the feeling that somebody cares for you.

We yearn for it, we search for it… LOVE. This is the Game of L♥ve.

♥

First burst: Attraction. Crush-hush. Hmm there’s something…



The first thing we notice to a person is his/her physical appearance. The first time he/she caught your eyes, you can’t stop thinking about him/her! This is the time when we feel so dumbstruck and out of ourselves wherever or whenever we see that ‘special one’. By this time, we yearn to see that person more and more, thinkin’ about him/her everytime, and making a move for him/her to notice you too!

I don’t believe in love at first sight but I do believe in crush at first sight, of course. Most of the head-turners are vavavoom gorgeous ladies, pretty-faced girlies, and drop-dead appealing guys. But let’s remember that beauty is only skin deep. Wenkz! Overused?

Well, let me tell you this: It’s on the outside that attracts but what’s on the inside makes us stay. When you will spend sometime together with that person and knowing more about him/her inside and out, that’s the time that you would value and appreciate the person more, and who knows, it might turn-out to something better.

But that’s not only the case. Sometimes, that person could be our companion or someone who we see as a friend. Then, you thought your guy-friend/girl-friend will stay as is, as a pal, as an advice-giver when you’re down, a shoulder to lean on when you cry. Then with a snap, you see him/her more special than usual, you could see the sparks on their eyes, the sweetness of their smile, and one day you’ll wake-up realizing you feel something deeper, something more special… and eventually, the friendship or closeness might turn into something deeper, and better

…hoping that his/her feelings would be mutual. :)

"Sometimes your nearness takes my breath away; and all the things I want to say can find no voice. Then, in silence, I can only hope my eyes will speak my heart."
-Robert Sexton

"Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over."
-unknown

♥


Second kiligness: Mutual Understanding (or MisUnderstanding?!)



In more conservative way, this stage could also be the ‘courtship period’. But there is still a big difference between M.U. and courtship… M.U. entails NO commitment, NO strings attached, but the feeling is mutual, shared and reciprocated. In courtship, the man is still striving to achieve the sweet ‘yes’ of his special someone, or the other way around, hahaha! And one thing more, courtship would mostly and eventually end up as being lovers and having a commitment to one another. But, M.U. helps you know each other deeper and is also a good sign that you two will also end up together, but of course if only you’re both willing to commit in a relationship.

If I would make a comparison, Live-in: Wedding ; M.U.: Taken
Hahaha!

Even though this “status” may seem so ‘safe’ well, of course you won’t be lying to your parents of having any boyfriend/girlfriend, and the ‘kilig’ factor is very high, but remember, and always remember that there’s NO commitment, and anytime of the day he/she could just walk-away and find another. And the worst part of it? You have NO rights in him/her. Poor dude.

Anyway, about the MisUnderstanding. Well that’s just one of my observation. Some Mis-understood being an M.U. as Mag-Un este Mag-On na. Hahaha! A big slap on the face if you’re just wishin’ on a wishing star dear. But, atleast, you know he/she feels the same way for you too, right?

"I love you, not only for what you are, But for what I am when I am with you."
-Roy Croft

"Love is the enchanted dawn of every heart."
-Alphonse Marie de la Martine

"Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery


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Third: TAKEN… in LOVE.



Here’s the peak! Finally! Mag-on, Mag-jowa, Mag-Hunnie-bunnie Sweetie Pie na kayo! The feeling is intense, the emotions are unexplainable. The love is in the state of passion, and kiligness factor is at peak, and everything seems so nice… so pleasant… so PERFECT. You see the world differently, and it feels like heaven when you’re with him/her.

You find each other PERFECT. La la la…LOVE. The feeling is good. A shoulder to lean on, a hand to hold… You know someone loves you and cares for you. Your heart flutters for those simple surprises and gifts. Simple act of gestures uplifts you.

You can't even concentrate and focus more on anything else... you can't sleep well... you always found yourself daydreaming. :)

Monthsary, Anniversary… blah blah. You’ll treasure it all. The memorable dates, holding hands, soft lips, unforgettable lines, expressive flowers, sweet chocolates, and other paraphernalias are all-around. At Valentine’s, you ain’t bored, and Christmas ain’t cold. You feel complete. Well, what more could I say?

What more could you ask for?

"When you are in Love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams."
-Dr Seuss

I have loved to the point of madness;
That which is called madness,
That which to me,
Is the only sensible way to love.
-F. Sagan

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Fourth: BROKEN… frown and down



Here it goes. Well, change is inevitable and nothing’s permanent... but all you knew you’re relationship is different, you've been dreaming for it to stay until the end of time. You thought it was PERFECT. You’re hella wrong.

Pain comes with love, and love comes with pain. So always be ready.

The end came, the show is over, game over. In this period of time, LOVE will be out of your vocabulary. Hurt. Pain. Bitter. Those words are like tattoos embedded on your heart, especially if you didn’t have a ‘healthy break-up’ with the him/her, or should I say, EX. Now here’s the heartache, wet pillows, and you’re depressed as ever. Chocolates? Alcohol? Shopping? Still doesn’t ease the pain. Feels like everything’s ruined. Hurts like hell. Damn Hell.

Lucky for you if you survive break-up easily, or should I say, effortlessly, carelessly... Damn you, if that’s the case. Hahaha! Just Kidding.

Of course, talk it out properly with him/her if things aren’t still settled for the both of you. Talk it out, and think it over. Fix things-up, if possible, for the both of you (or more, if there are other parties involved) Swallow your pride. Bitterness must be thrown away. Yes time heals but not really if you don’t help yourself to be healed.

How could you break past a break-up if there’s no formal closure, right? And it also helps to ease the pain and it unloads your burden.

"Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime."
-Bette Davis

"You will never know true happiness
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand
what pain really is
until you have lost it."
-anonymous

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Fifth Switch: Moving-on… Life must go on. Stand-up and smile.



‘Life goes on’ as they say. She/he is not your world, your world doesn't revolve only on him/her, move-on! The world still revolves even without you, so better catch up. You could have missed a lot of things while you’re busy emote-emote in there.

You thought it was all love, but it was all a mistake. But don’t deny that, that mistake made you smile, and left a special part in your life. That’s part of life, and that’s part of love.

Learn to forgive and forget, be thankful that you’ve known early that she/he is not really for you. There’s always a reason to smile. There’s your family and friends. They care for you too.

Let’s put that smile back on your face. We never know, maybe that bitter past will lead you to a sweeter future. Stand-up and learn to love again. Baka nandyan lang siya sa tabi-tabi.,di mo lang pinapansin o baka na-traffic lang.

Then by there, it will again flow to First stage. Then until here… Just hope that history won’t repeat itself. :)

"There is no remedy for love but to love more."
-Henry David Thoreau

♥

That’s the cycle of love. It’s impossible no one would ever experience atleast 2 of these. Love is a cycle. Love is a game we play. You may win, you may lose. It will rotate until you’ve found the person that is really meant for you, if you make yourself worthy for victory. :)

I don’t believe in destiny, for me, destiny is a choice. Learn to make the right choices. Learn from your mistakes. That’s part of love. There’s no such thing as a PERFECT LOVE, ONLY TRUE LOVE.

L♥ve is a game. Mahirap manalo, maraming pagsubok ang susuungin, maraming yarak ang daraanan. Walang kasiguraduhan, at minsan nawawalan ka na ng pag-asa. Pero di ka naman nag-iisa, lahat tayo ay makakaranas ng sakit, dahil ang totoo, walang perpektong pag-ibig.

Take the risk, if the person is worth it.

“Paano ka tatama, kung hindi ka tataya?”
-"Ted Hannah" by Parokya ni Edgar

Paano ka nga naman tatama kung hindi ka tataya, 'di ba?


♥ Mara Sheana MANiPON


*Gratitudes:

www.1-love-quotes.com/love_quotes_top_100.htm -for the love quotes & sayings
www.romantic-lyrics.com/lovequotes.shtml -for the love quotes & sayings
www.photobucket.com -for the photos